How much of present-day anxiety is related to that ticking time clock?
It starts at a young age, when you’re traveling and begin to wonder how much further you have to go.
“How many more miles?” you ask.
“Not much more,” a parent replies.
A few minutes later, you ask again, “How much further before we get there?”
Same response.
When you’re in class with a sub-par teacher or professor, can you recall how often you looked at the clock. I know I looked every five minutes in many of my classes.
But when a teacher was really good and the subject truly interested you, the clock was a distant ally. It wasn’t part of the picture.
An hour or two feels as though it is only a few minutes when you’re in a flowful rather than fearful state. When you are creatively alive, your energy rises and time almost ceases to exist.
On the contrary, when you’re constantly managing every minute of every day, you’re continually adding anxiety into your every move.
There’s no doubt that many people need a certain structure in their lives, and the ticking time clock is one way they hold themselves accountable. But is it the ONLY way, and is it the BEST way, all day long, in every moment of our lives?
I don’t think so. In fact, I see the never-ending obsession with time as a self-imposed prison. Energy arises when the clock is no longer running the show, YOU are.
Earlier today I worked with a private client who is taking a deep dive into my new Power Postures program. One of the keys he learned from me is how to take control of your mind by ignoring the clock until you are finished. Instead of telling yourself that you are going to do something for a definite amount of time, there are many other variables at play that you previously ignored.
Focus on these other variables and guess what happens? Time expands and you get more done. As Dr. Maltz would say, “You get more living out of life.”
Focusing on the clock has its benefits and may be necessary at certain times of each day, but it also has many detriments, one of which is the inability to calm down. And that’s a big one.
When you engage body, breath and mind with Power Postures, you give yourself the calmness you deserve.
Here endeth the lesson.
Matt Furey